Depression Counselling Kelowna
After years of trauma and challenges, our nervous system protects us by freezing.
Let’s help it move again — gently and at your pace.
How EMDR Can Treat Depression
Depression often isn’t just about sadness — it’s about shutdown.
For many people, depression is the nervous system's natural response to prolonged stress, trauma, or emotional overload. When fight or flight no longer feels possible, the system goes into freeze — numbing out, disconnecting, and conserving energy as a form of protection.
At Heart Centered EMDR in Kelowna, we use Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to address depression at its roots. This approach helps the brain and body safely process the experiences that may be keeping you stuck — gently guiding you out of survival mode and back into movement, connection, and vitality.
Understanding the Freeze Response
Depression is often misunderstood as a mental weakness or chemical imbalance — but many symptoms of depression are actually signs of a dysregulated nervous system.
You might be experiencing trauma-linked depression if you:
Feel emotionally numb, flat, or disconnected
Have trouble getting out of bed, starting tasks, or feeling motivated
Experience chronic fatigue or body heaviness
Blame yourself for “not doing enough” or “being lazy”
Feel stuck in hopelessness, shame, or apathy
Struggle to feel joy, connection, or purpose
These aren’t character flaws. They’re signs that your body has been trying to protect you for a long time — and that it’s time to offer it something new.
What Happens During EMDR for Depression
EMDR works by stimulating both sides of the brain (usually through eye movements or gentle tapping) while recalling the emotional themes, memories, or sensations linked to depressive patterns.
This process helps:
Reduce emotional and physical numbness
Reprocess frozen trauma responses and stuck beliefs
Restore nervous system mobility (the ability to shift between states)
Rebuild new, adaptive beliefs like “I can move forward,” “I matter,” and “There is hope”
Through a combination of somatic awareness, EMDR, and relational safety, we help your system shift from collapse into re-engagement with life — at a pace that feels safe and sustainable.
Why Choose Heart Centered EMDR in Kelowna?
Ashlea brings over a decade of experience in trauma and mental health to her work with clients facing depression. Her approach combines evidence-based EMDR with body-based techniques and a deeply compassionate, trauma-informed presence.
Sessions are available in-person at a private office in Kelowna or virtually for residents across British Columbia.
This is depression counselling rooted in nervous system healing, not surface-level symptom control.
It’s Not That You Don’t Want to Feel Better — It’s That Your Body Has Been in Survival Mode
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’ve been doing what it takes to survive — and now, your system is asking for a different way forward.
If you’re ready to feel again — to reconnect with purpose, emotion, and energy — we’re here to walk alongside you.
