What to Expect from PTSD Counselling with EMDR

If you're living with the effects of trauma, you already know that healing isn’t as simple as “moving on.” Trauma can live in the body for years, long after the danger has passed.

Whether your symptoms show up as panic attacks, dissociation, nightmares, emotional numbness, or chronic anxiety, PTSD counselling can offer real hope, especially when paired with a specialized approach like EMDR.

When it comes to PTSD counselling Kelowna residents deserve more than a one-size-fits-all approach.

EMDR for PTSD offers a unique, trauma-informed approach that supports healing on both a neurological and emotional level. By targeting the root of trauma—not just the symptoms—EMDR helps the nervous system safely reprocess painful memories. For those seeking trauma therapy in Kelowna, this method can create lasting relief, even when other therapies haven’t helped.

Understanding PTSD

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) develops when the nervous system doesn’t fully process a traumatic experience. This can be the result of a single event, like a car accident or assault, or prolonged exposure to stress, such as childhood neglect or emotional abuse.

Your brain’s job is to keep you safe. But when trauma is unresolved, it can leave your nervous system in a constant state of alert. Even if the original threat is gone, your body continues to respond as if it’s happening now.

That’s why you might:

  • React strongly to certain sounds or smells

  • Struggle with sleep, memory, or concentration

  • Feel emotionally distant or detached from others

  • Experience physical symptoms with no clear cause


Why EMDR Is So Effective for Trauma

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a clinically proven, non-invasive therapy designed specifically to help people heal from trauma. Unlike talk therapy, EMDR doesn’t require you to re-tell or analyze your trauma in detail.

Instead, it works by using bilateral stimulation, which is gentle side-to-side eye movements, tapping, or sound to help your brain reprocess stuck trauma memories. When these memories are no longer stored as “threat,” your symptoms begin to ease.

People often describe EMDR sessions as deeply calming and emotionally freeing. After several sessions, you may find that traumatic memories feel less vivid, and your body no longer reacts to them with the same intensity.

What to Expect in a PTSD Counselling Session

If you're beginning PTSD counselling Kelowna, here's what you can generally expect:

  1. Initial Consultation
    Your therapist will gently explore your history, symptoms, and goals. This is a safe space to talk about what’s going on now and you won’t be expected to share more than you’re ready to.

  2. Nervous System Education
    A key part of trauma therapy Kelowna is understanding how trauma impacts your body. You’ll learn how your nervous system responds to triggers, and how to create more internal safety.

  3. Stabilization & Resourcing
    Before starting EMDR, your therapist will help you build skills for grounding, self-regulation, and emotional safety. These become tools you can use both inside and outside of therapy.

  4. EMDR Processing
    When you’re ready, you’ll move into the reprocessing phase. This can look different for everyone, but your therapist will guide the process at a pace that feels safe, supportive, and respectful.

  5. Integration & Support
    Healing doesn’t end when the session does. You’ll continue working with your therapist to integrate the changes in your body, thoughts, and emotions as your system begins to settle.


You're Not Broken — Your System Just Needs Support

If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like nothing has helped so far, know this: you are not broken. PTSD is not a sign of weakness; it’s a sign that your system did what it had to do to survive. With the right tools, it can begin to feel safe again.


Looking for PTSD counselling in Kelowna?
Book a consultation today and explore whether EMDR could support your healing. You deserve relief and there is a way forward.

Ashlea Lawrenson

Ashlea Lawrenson, RTC
EMDR & Somatic Therapist | Heart Centered EMDR, Kelowna
Ashlea specializes in trauma-informed care using EMDR and mindfulness-based somatic therapy. With over a decade of experience, she supports clients in reconnecting with their bodies, healing past wounds, and building emotional resilience.

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